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Life Is Like a Book....

Some chapters are sad, some are happy, and some are exciting, but if you never turn the page, you will never know what the next chapter has in store for you.
No one has told you that you are beautiful, you are alive for a reason, you are stronger than you think, you are going to get through this DON'T GIVE UP.
A few bad chapters does not mean that you story is over. 

Theory Of Life...

When flood comes, the fish eat ants. But when water dries, the ants eat fish.
life gives chance to everyone. Just have to wait for our turn.
One of the secret to success is learning hot to ACT in spite of fear. Most people fall short of success because they are paralyzed by fear. They don't step out of their comfort zone. The fear ends up preventing them from taking any action, resulting in them never achieving what they set out to do.
I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not who does not feel afraid. But he who conquers that fear.  

Full Form Of ARTIST...

A                        Attitude
              Be positive and try your best. 
R                        Respect
              Respect everyone and everything.
T                         Think
              Understand and demonstrate.
I                          Imagine
              Be creative and dream.
S                         Spic & spin
             Clean up after yourself and table.
T                          Target
             Follow direction to stay on target.

Motivational thoughts ...

  • Happiness is a direction not a destination.
  • Decide that you want it more than you are afraid of it.
  • The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dream.
  • The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.
  • If you are doing your best, you on't have any to worry about failure.
  • An eye for an eye, only makes the whole world blind.
  • The purpose of life is a life of purpose.
  • Where there is love, there is life.
  • We can't solve any problem by using the same kind of thinking we used to create them.

How To Be Mentally Strong......

  • Don't fear alone time.
  • Don't dwell on the past.
  • Don't give up after the first failure.
  • Don't resent on other people success.
  • Don't waste energy on things you can't control.
  • Don't let others influence your emotion.
  • Don't feel the world owes you.
  • Don't expect immediate results.
  • Don't worry about pleasing everyone.

Forget past and live in present...

Don't allow your past to control your present or future. Whatever happen you must let it go. Leave the pain of your past behind. So, it can not ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind. So, it can not block the light of your bright future. If someone do wrong with you then only way you can win is if you let go and move on. If you want to win, then you must focus on building your future and start hard work now and make your future great.

Cardinal Rules For Life.....

  • Make peace with your past
so it won't disturb your present.
  • What other people think of you
is none of your business.
  • Time heals almost everything
give it time.
  • No one is in charge
of your happiness. Except you.
  • Don't compare your life to others
and don't judge them, you have no idea what their journey is all about.
  • Stop thinking too much
Its alright not to know the answers. They will come to you when you least expect it.
  • Smile
You don't own all the problems in the world.

What successful people do during weekends...

  • They read for leisure.
  • They spend time with their family to make sure each of them feel loved.
  • They pursue their interest, as work isn't the only aspect pf their lives.
  • They eat well to reward themselves.
  • They sleep earlier to rest their body and mind.
  • They learn something new to stimulate their thoughts.
  • They go to the nature to appreciate the beauty of the world.
  • They disconnect and spend more time alone.

How to develop & improve patience.

  • Make a list.
Make a list of things that make you impatience, for e.g. A bad traffic.
  • Invest your time in some hobby.
Take up a hobby that makes you happy and keeps you at peace. By doing this you reach one step closer in being patient.
  • Expect the unexpected.
Be realistic about how plans and schedules may turn out. Accept it gracefully.


  • Positive attitude - learning opportunity.
  • Patience - improvement takes time but must be timely.
  • Understanding agreement state program requirements.
  • Willingness to improve.
  • Understanding staff.
  • Administrative support.
  • Administration understands need for change.
  • Sufficient staff. 


  • It keeps stress at bay.
Positivity helps you in exploring many possibilities. It keeps stress away from you.
  • You live a happy and healthy life.
You can avoid many mental and physical diseases with the help of positivity.
  • It boosts your confidence and self-esteem.
Half of the battle is own if you are confidence of your abilities. Positive attitude promotes confidence. Confidence is must have to meet success.
  • You can make good decisions.
Positivity allows you to think open-mindedly. It leads to good decision making.
  • It leads you to success.
Positive thinking helps you in discovering your skills. It also keeps you motivated. All these things are essentials to achieve success. 


  • Identify who in your life is negative.
  • Don't feel guilty about cutting negative people from your life.
  • Don't argue with the negative people, or get drawn into their drama.
  • Re-program your mind.
  • Adopt an affirmation habit.
  • Practice replacing negative thoughts with positive.
  • Remind yourself of what is good in your life.
  • Get a gratitude journal and write three things you are grateful for every morning.
  • Stop complaining.
  • Don't gossip or listen to anyone gossiping.
  • Set goal.
  • Stop multitasking.
  • Live your life not theirs.
  • Remove physical clutter from your life.

Things That Can Make You Happy...

  1. Grow your positive attitude.
  2. Be grateful.
  3. Take time to relax.
  4. Build memories.
  5. Practice positive envy and comparison.
  6. Enjoy the little things and seemingly insignificant.
  7. Follow your dreams and goal.
  8. Take the leadership of your life.


  • I won't
Pain is temporary, quitting last forever.
  • I can't
Do one thing that scares you.
  • I don't know how
Imagination is more important than knowledge.
  • I wish i could 
Be the change that you wish to see in the world.
  • I wan't to
We are what we pretend to be.
  • I think i might 
Risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to take nothing. 
  • I might
Stay hungry, stay foolish.
  • I think i can
It's hard to beat a person who never gives up.
  • I can
I can is 100 times more important than IQ.
  • I am
Your life is an occasion.Rise to it.
  • I did
Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration.

Types Of Negativity To Kill..

  • Perfectionism
Since perfectionism is literally unattainable, trying to achieve it will only result in your feeling less than in every situation.

  • Self doubt
It is a weed that will take over your life if you don't kitt it at the root.

  • Worry
Worrying changes nothing except your health and mental state. Worrying is wallowing in negative thinking.

  • Complaining
When you choose to focus only on the bad things, you are really setting yourself up for never being content or happy.

  • Assuming the worst will happen
If you never think things will be better, they won't be. This remove hope.


  • When you become aware of rumination and negative thinking that makes you feel bad and depressed.
  • Use the positive thinking tool to write down the negative thoughts and eliminate it (get the thought out of your head and down on paper).
  • And then follow the steps to rewire your mind for positive thinking, so that you never deal with that kind of thought returning to you again.
  • These kinds of negative thoughts are opportunities for huge improvement.


  • Keep yourself busy.
  • Spend more time with your family.
  • Stop thinking negative thoughts.
  • Smilee... find happiness in things.
  • Do whatever you want.
  • Reborn yourself.
  • Start loving yourself.
  • Engross yourself with study, work, friends...
  • Be happy.


  • Receive criticism successfully.
 Put your shields up. Act like a coffee filter. Strain out the emotional grounds-like fear or anger-from the facts.

  • Accept what is said without giving advice.
There are times when we believe the speaker is wrong, and it would feel so good to tell them what to do. However, even when the advice is eventually followed, the timing is important. It is best to listen, to support and to let the feelings be heard before offering any advice.

  • Don't interrupt.
Sometimes it is necessary to stop talking to hear all of the words. Concentrate on the words and pay careful attention to the non verbal gestures. Eliminate both mental and physical distraction.

  • Listen with empathy.
Put yourself in their shoes. Try to understand their perspective. It is not necessary to agree with other point of view to understand or empathize with it.


Dream. That's the powerful word. You will knocked down many times chasing your dreams. You will feel like you don't have the energy...