Big rec

SPEAK CAREFULLY...

  • Be Specific.
 Listeners are not mind readers. Specifically define the problem or name the feeling is unlikely that others will know what we are wanting or feeling if we leave them guessing.
  • Say less
Silence is helpful when emotions are strong, and we feel stressed or tired. Often, during those times, we say things do not mean. We lend to exaggerate or escalate the situation to a magnitude that is not real.
  • Stay focused
Discuss only the issue at hand. Getting off the track and bringing up old issues is confusing and irritating. Don't say things you don't mean or threaten things you won't carry out.
  • Stay it with tact
Ban blaming. Keep descriptive ruther than critical, blaming or all-knowing. Avoid criticism and sarcasm. 

LOVE YOURSELF....

                       HEY YOU



yes, you. stop being unhappy with yourself. you are perfect. stop wishing you looked like someone else or wishing people liked you as much as they like someone else. stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you. stop hating your body, your face, your personality, your quirks. love them. without those things you wouldn't be you. and why would you want to be anyone else? be confident with who you are. smile. it'll draw people in. if anyone hates on you because you are happy with yourself then you stick your middle finger in the air and say screw it. my happiness will not depend on others anymore. i'm happy because i love who i am. i love my flaws. i love my imperfections...

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR ANGER...

There is one common thing in all of you whether it is boy or a girl that is throwing the mobile phone in anger. Taking advantage of this, the Samsung company took out never mind offer. Is it right to be so angry? No, this is not good for your health and career. In anger you can never take a right decision. It is very important to use anger at the right place. By annoying, screaming and breaking can ruin your life. Whenever you get angry shut yourself in a room and use that rage in right way such as studying or in business. Then see how your life changes. Take out some of your evils and learn to forgive someone. Life is too short enjoy it happily because happiness looks good on your face not trouble.

ANGER IS A CANCER OF MIND TREAT IT OR BEAR IT..... 

BIG RISK MEANS BIGGER SUCCESS....

Once reporter ask a question from mark zuckerberg Facebook creator that your company is one of the world's best company. Everyday you do new experiment, take a big risks you don't feel scared? He said that if i say that i am not afraid then it would be wrong. The world is growing in such a way that not taking a risk is the biggest risk. If you think that you will be successful without taking any risk then you think wrong. 
If you have any idea then use it or if you fail in this then you will not regret all the life that you didn't even use your idea. Do not afraid to take risk. Only by taking risk you can do something big...

  There can be no vulnerability without risk. There can be no community without vulnerability. There can be no peace, and ultimately no life, without community.

WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE QUITTING...

Have you ever fallen into the pit? If you have fallen down, then you stay there or get up and run. Have probably been up and running. If you lose now, then how will you move forward? Everyday will not be the same. The problem will increase over time. But the winners will never give up. Winners believe in yourself. They know that the troubles will not spoil them. When you want to leave, think about why did you start? Whenever you take a work in your hand, two voices will come out from outside one from winner and other from loser. Winner never says no and loser never says yes. 


Everyone do work to succeed but there will be trouble on the way to success. Its up to you, whether you will succeed by facing difficulties or not.
WHEN YOU COME TO THE END OF YOUR ROPE, TIE A KNOT AND HANG ON.....

RULES FOR SUCCESS...


  • Don't waste time
Never be free, utilize your time rightly.
  • Practice make us perfect
People are not at danger from your 100 moves but, they will be in danger from your that move which you have practice 100 times.
  • Keep moving forward
Make mistakes but learn from them. Don't stop once you succeed, just keep moving.
  • Adapt to change quickly
Only those people are successful in this world who accept the changing world.
  • Be happy in all situation
Nobodies matter what you are doing. Be happy in all conditions.
  • Honesty is the key to success
Always keep your intentions right. Honesty is most important to get success.
  • Change your thinking
Many people think that if something get bigger then i will do but he doesn't think that the beginning of the bigger is also from small.
  • Focus on your strenght
People understand that we will be successful only when we will not be distracted. Successful people also do wrong things but they give more importance to the right job.

YOU ARE UNIQUE....

Don't compare yourself to anyone if you do so, then you insult yourself. A thought that will change your life, if you understand it. Live your life today as most people won't, so that you can live your life as most people can't. There is some strength in everyone but just have to find it. When there will be a desire within you that i want to know, what i am, what is my uniqueness which is not present in this world. You will start getting the answers. Your success, passion, your strength lies in your heart. Whatever you want to be all inside you, nothing outside. In front of your willpower, no power in the world can stand in front of you. This confidence will bring you to your destination. If you have spirit to do something, then you will win. Hey, you will get as much as you can't think in your dream. But be a best player of your field, then see you get everything as you wish. People should run you according to your own, but you should walk according to your own. People's work is say something to you, they will say. The thing is up to you, whatever you will listen or not. You have to face a lot of difficulties in your destination. The people who think that you are wrong. On the day you succeed that people will salute you and your parents.....

Comparison is one of the biggest causes of unhappiness. Respect your own journey..

OVERCOME YOUR FEAR TO GET SUCCESS

Many people in the world think that they can not do this work. The reason for this is fear. What is FEAR?

Before doing any work assume that we can't. It is fear. Before facing any challenge, many people refuses that we can,t do. If chain tied at the foot of a small elephant's child, then he will try very hard to get out. He will try, but his efforts will fail. When the same elephant's child grows up, tied again but, whenever can not get out. It was in his mind that when he could not do it in his childhood, he still would not be able to do. Because of this fear, people run away from doing their favorite work. Remove this fear and throw it.


Thomas Edison is the great scientist. After 3 month they had fired from school and teacher say that he is not able to read and understand anything. He can't do anything in our life. But he only gave light to the whole world. He invent BULB. But he failed 999 times in making bulb. He didn't give up. In 1000 turn he made it. Remember those who work hard, never lose in his life. What does not happen in this world, if you have courage, then the world is in the hand and the sky is tilted in the feet. 
"Most great people have attained their greatest success just one step beyond their greatest failure."

TIME MANAGEMENT

What is Time Management? How to manage it? Everyone has this question in mind.The answer is "The ability to use one's time effectively or productively especially at work."



You all have heard one thing TIME IS MONEY, but the truth is time is bigger than money. The hard earned money can earn again, but not the time. Understand the value of time. We say that we will start the work at the right time, but the truth is that it is right to start the work at all time. You should know the value of 24 hours of your day, that you used that time to get your goals or do not understand the value of time and ruined it. Learn to appreciate the time, then time will appreciate you. The whole world gets 24 hours in one day, someone puts them to get their goal and succeed and some ruin this time and later regret. Give your 10 years of your life to career then, the whole life you will be happy. If you work hard for 10 years all their life you will fulfill their hobbies, and if you put these 10 years to fulfill your hobbies then, all life you will do work hard. Now its your choice you will work hard for 10 years or all the life.

 "Time = life; therefore, waste your time and waste of your life, or master your time and master your life."

ADDICTION...

Today I'm going to tell you the biggest problem of the youth which is ADDICTION. What is addiction and how to remove from our life? I tell you about this.

Today's generation goes unknowingly on the wrong track. Addiction ranging from cigarette, alcohol, and drugs to whatsapp, facebook, other social media, you tube, mobile and television this is all wrong track. The problem is not in the mobile but it is a problem that we are getting addicted to mobile. Mobile is not leaving for one minute, it's a problem. If you are addicted with anything, then understand that you are on the wrong track. For the first time you will try cigarette, alcohol, and drugs with your friends. Once you do, you will do it twice, for the third time you will get addicted to it. Due to the addiction of all this, life gets spoiled. Damage your body organ by taking all these things, which costs its life.


OVERCOME BAD ADDICTION

Keep yourself busy to leave all of these things. The friends who take you to all these things, you get away from those friends. They are not friends who push you into death's mouth. Change your life. Bring addiction for your studies, work and business. Then look, where your level will reach. At last, if you want to improve your life then, come on the right path.
Put your recovery first so that everything else doesn’t have to come last.”

BOOST YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE

Why does this happen that we don't get what we want? We can't do what we want to do? I tell you, what the problem is?


SELF-CONFIDENCE is most necessary to move towards your dream. If you believe in doing that work then, you can do it, no one can stop you. When you go towards your dream, there is no one to tell you how to achieve it. There are bosses in office and parents at home, but at that time you are your boss. If that work is difficult then, it will not make any difference to you because you have to do that work, not for anyone else but for yourself. Your thinking can make you strong or weak. Do not think that work is easy, then everyone will do it. Our confidence make that work is easier. I know you can fulfill your dreams, when you think about your dream then, you can achieve that dream too. You can get out of every trouble, if you trust yourself. If you have confidence then, the world will salute you. Do good work, trust yourself believe me , all will be good. Work hard, to feel proud of your parents. Work hard believe in yourself, you will get everything..
"Always be yourself and have faith in yourself. Do not go out and look for a successful personality and try to duplicate it."

BE POSITIVE AND WORK HARD

It will come one day in everybody's life when it has to set it goal. You have to set your goal and try to achieve it, no matter what your goal is. You get, what you want if you will work harder.


Life is a war, the god has thrown us into the war zone. BE ALERT PROTECT YOURSELF. If you have to read then read with passion.. if you have to sing then sing with passion. The life of the living without the destination is useless. It doesn't make any difference to the world due to its death.
Like in The Mahabharata, Arjun saw only his goal. Their goal was to shoot an arrow on the bird's eye only, who was sitting on the tree and it was visible to them and nothing else and they did it. Likewise, you also aim in your life like Arjun and work on it. Be the master of your field. Put your 100% in your work. Then, see how you will get success in your life.

A dream doesn't become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.

DEPRESSION: ARE YOU OK !!!

ARE YOU OK!

Today's big problem for all the students is DEPRESSION. Everyone feels down at time. The breakup of a relationship or a bad grade can lead to low mood. And in some cases, depression can be life threatening with suicide as a possible outcome.In the world, suicide is the first leading cause of death among people between ages 15-30.
Depression is a common now a days, this problem is serious mental illness typically marked by sad or anxious feelings and manifests itself in the reduced efficiency.

CAUSES 

A lack of sleep, poor eating habits, and no exercise are a recipe for depression among students. Students face challenges, pressure and anxieties that can cause them to feel overwhelmed.

FACTORS AFFECTING THE PRESENCE OF DEPRESSION

  • Don't see the others  achievements, believe in yourself and try different things as you can.
  • Suicidal idea is associated with current depression, antidepressant use and excessive alcohol consumption.
OVERCOMING DEPRESSION 
  • Eat well and avoid unhealthy habits.
  • Get a good night sleep.
  • Avoid making big decisions until, you are feeling better.
  • Help others and do volunteer work.
  • Do what you can, when you can, but don't harm yourself up if you fail.
"Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy."
"ONCE YOU CHOOSE HOPE, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE" 

INVEST IN YOURSELF: The More You Learn, The More You'll Earn


"Investing in yourself" is the true way to improve yourself. It will not only improve yourself, it will improve the lives of all those who are around you. Life is too small, you never know which is your last day. So, if you want to utilze your life at the maximum :Put Yourself At The Top Of Your To-Do-List & The Rest Will Fall Into Place Automatically.

The best time to invest in yourself is TODAY! So start now to invest &to develop the essential skills for success.Learning to trust yourself is the hardest & best way to invest in yourself, because only you can figure out how to live the best life.
Some people say education is the first & the best when you start investing in yourself.
But I thought HEALTH is the first one priorily while investing in ourself. After health, investment priorily differ for all some people wants to invest in creativeness, education, dancing, coding many more things. So, person to person priorty of investment changes.
I hope you all decide to give it a try, believe me it works in all terms(either related to health , wealth or anything). 
"Life is growth, if we stop growing technically and spiritually, we are as good as dead"

STAY MOTIVATED

Remember Your Goals – Stay Motivated

Oftentimes, the best way to pick yourself up when going through a difficult time is to remind yourself why you do? What matters to you the most? Is it your family? Is it to improve your situation or the lives of those around you? Whatever it is, make sure that your goals are bigger than you, because you’ll need to draw on them for strength when the odds are against you, which they inevitably will at some point. That’s just life. It’s how you face you challenges that will define you.

Stay focused, go after your dreams and keep moving toward your goals.

BELIVE IN YOURSELF


Believe in yourself 

There is an unlimited power in your belief. If you "believe in yourself", you can do anything in your life. Your over confidence can destroy your life and your self belief make your life perfect. 
If you believe in yourself you can achieve incredibly great. And it will lead you to fulfill your dream/esteem goal. 

RESPECT EVERY WOMEN....

You are beautiful, you are kind, you are smart, you are funny, you are unique. You are more precious than rose, pearls, and diamonds. You ...